Thursday, June 30, 2022

Until Death Does Us Part

 



UNTIL DEATH DO US PART


I am 91 years old now and I am facing the end of a beautiful life with the most devoted Wife anyone could have. She has always been there for me and now when most would have thought of a Nursing Home, she decided to have me stay in our home. Although I do have Caregivers, they cannot equal the love and care she gives me; care 24 hrs. a day and time from her life. 

The last phrase of our Wedding Vows: "Until Death Does Us Part" has become a reality. God has given me an Angel.   

I love you Carol and may God Bless you.

Love, Don

Faith, Hope and Love




FAITH, HOPE AND LOVE 


FAITH: I am now experiencing a new avenue of life. I am the fortunate recipient of homecare; provided by dedicated caregivers. These caregivers are from young to old, from varied nations, experiences, and different religious faiths. I am of the Christian faith, but I find that most of my caregivers have faith in some higher being. In conversations the thoughts have come up: "How could God allow the present world situations?"  That is where Faith comes in. Through prayers and example is the answer. So then what is Faith?  I once read and believe Faith is the substance of things hoped for, and the evidence of things not seen.


HOPE: I find that my hope is based on my faith. Hope for a better world where people live peacefully and lovingly in relationships. Returning to memories of the past that were soothing to the mind, and strengthening those wishes. Though it may not be possible to return to this, we can by exemplifying love and care for one another. 

LOVE: I once asked a caregiver why they chose this occupation. The answer was, "because I care and want to provide the best comfort to those in need, and to make their lives more peaceful". I find this desire present in the full medical community; in first responders and others in the medical field. I am thankful for the feeling of love and I hope that it will reach out to all communities. What a wonderful expression of love-to be cared for as I age and have more needs.